How to keep your kids away from pornographers
It's becoming difficult to keep your kids away from pornographers because we live in a pornified world. Many roads lead to my door, and they run the whole gambit, from drug abuse to thrill-seekers. However, these days, the most common catalyst to seeing your child in a xxx film is what I call ghost parents. Ghost parents are physically in their child's life but they have little or no substantial interaction with their kids. The ghost parent might even work hard to provide for the physical needs of their children, but in doing so their emotional needs get neglected. So when your child hits her / his 18th birthday and s/he is legally considered an adult, people like me are eager to teach them how to attain the one thing you have taught them has tangible value, money. It doesn't hurt that the more starved for attention your child has become, the more our recording of their graphic sexual display can be turned into profit. And by then, there's nothing a parent can do about it because once they reach my doorstep, it's too late.
The parents might do an incredible job keeping food on the table, a roof over their heads, and clothes on their backs. They might even go to every parent-teacher meeting and be involved with the PTA. However, apart from these obvious responsibilities, they're otherwise just too busy or preoccupied with their own lives to interact with their children. These parents are emotionally drained by professional demands, putting all their energy into working towards a deadline or promotion. They find themselves short-fused around the never-ending demands of child-rearing and seek time to themselves or with friends to decompress and "be a better parent". Leaving children to quietly play on their screens, be babysat, or even just stay home alone, if they are old enough. Absenteeism is not a formula to keep your kids away from pornographers; actually, it drives many of them right into our loving arms.
Given that there are so many adult-themed avenues for making money these days, some would argue that all a girl has to do if she wants money and is sexually liberal, is sign up to Only Fans or something similar. And although many might try this route, they quickly give up because the payout to the work required falls far from meeting expectations. Sex and fan-based platforms can't keep your kids away from pornographers for several reasons. First, they don't offer a guaranteed income. Second, it isn't even enough to produce one's own content. Those who take this career path, must also constantly self-promote to recruit each and every supporting "fan". Furthermore, these sites have no camaraderie, only competition, while in the porn industry, like a licentious dysfunctional family, we tend to cooperate because we may have to work together one day.
Many pornographers like being father figures.
"Barely legal" adult videos are undoubtedly popular among pedophiles and, with baby-faced talent having flashed their over-18 ID to us pornographers, are completely legal. I've had young porn talent introduce me to their siblings when they became legally able to consent. Many girls literally celebrate their birthdays on set, thinking about all fan worship and the goodies their new job will provide them with. I even remember being on set with 3 sisters aged between 22 and 18. While I waited to work with one of them for another scene, the incestuous sisters put on a show for the camera that left nothing to the imagination. There is a reason why "who's your Daddy?" is a porno line. During the shoot, I listened to the producer constantly praise the girls for how beautiful they were and how spectacular their work was. His enthusiasm was genuine because he knew the value of their debauchery to the punters. He also was very touchy-feely with them, offering fatherly kisses and big hugs whenever they were near him. (Sexual misconduct or inappropriate behavior is just not a thing on porn sets.) So anyone who wants to keep their kids away from pornographers needs to start by becoming close to their children. They need to do it on their kids' terms, while they are still young and looking for parental attention. Parents can't wait until after their children have grown enough to have given up and are ready to find someone else to fill the void.
School Sucks! The porn industry has already started to benefit from the school system's neglect to teach reading, writing, and arithmetic in favor of studies in gender expression. So to keep your kids away from pornographers, you need to either put an end to the BS going on in the schools or pull them out and home-school them. As a producer, getting to know my talent for who they believe themselves to be has been both rewarding and very profitable. Unsurprisingly, I have had all kinds of "sexuality" expressionists enter my doors. Take the young biological female who swore she was a boy, and only wanted to do solo work when we met. She ended up doing a mini gang-bang and now she enjoys escorting. So I guess, like me, her new gender is prostitute. - Trust me, there are plenty of pornographers eagerly anticipating what the mask generation will be willing to do for an easy dollar and with luck, it won't cost us much more than that.
Another way to keep your kids away from pornographers is to stop being a helicopter parent, this behavior is akin to a prison warden. You need to stop preventing your kids from doing things, fearing that they may be hurt. You must start to do things WITH them that challenge them to grow. Get your freaking priorities in order, because I guarantee that most people don't need to be spending their money on half the junk that they do. Most couples can afford to have one parent stay home instead of working, and either home school the children or at least be there when needed. Unfortunately, the majority of people chose to send a message to their kids that having money to keep up with tech, entertainment, and fashion, is more important than interpersonal relationships. In fact, they teach them that they are showing their love by buying the newest I-phone, Netflix, or Amazon Prime subscription or driving the coolest car. As for single parents, they should make every effort to force the government to pay them to stay home. Let's face it, the government spends trillions on useless crap; would taxes not be better spent helping to raise decent human beings?
As always, what someone chooses to do is up to them. These are your kids and not mine, I don't want the responsibility. But once they are legally adults, all bets are off. Just don't say that you weren't warned when you see your 18-year-old daughter on the Internet having sex with me.